This is beyond sad! I cant believe this is what it has come to. The horn of Africa is one of the richest place in the world, and this is what it has come to? Its quite heartbreaking!
Why I’m single..
I’m forever being asked “why are you single?” or “I can’t believe you don’t have a man”.. I’m confused to why people believe that every female that they find attractive must have a boyfriend or a significant other in their life?
I’m single because I haven’t met anyone worth my time, effort, energy, emotions, trust, dedication, money and friendship.
When looking back on the past the only thing that you will gain from a relationship that doesn’t last is knowledge and I believe that I have enough knowledge about relationships and what I am and am not looking for, so I can skip all that nonsense of heartache, disappointment etc.
Now, now.. I’m not saying that relationships are not a beautiful thing, I mean they’re great. You find someone you can be yourself with, laugh, love/like, cry and laugh with, express yourself too. But I don’t crave that sort of want from another person.
I’m very content being by myself, extremely content. I enjoy my own company.
Instead of dedicating my time on someone else I would rather dedicate that time and energy into myself and find myself. I would rather learn about myself in depth to find out what makes me happy, sad, laugh, cry.. What I love doing and what I dislike. What I like to educate myself about and why I like these things. Where I want to be in the future and how I am going to get there.
70% of people jump into relationships without being content with themselves or having minor or huge insecurities about themselves, which in my opinion is wrong. How do you expect someone to love or be happy with you if you don’t love or you are not happy with yourself?
It’s just something to think about.
So lets just say I’m in a relationship with myself, and you’re going to have to be pretty damn amazing to change that.
